Ukwabelana ngesondo nomntu ongamaziyo okanye iqabane elitsha kunento entle. Yongeza kumava, kwanengcamango yokwenqatshelwe kwabaninzi iyavuselela, ibala amandla kunye nokucinga kweqabane. Ukwabelana ngesondo kwibhari kuphumla kancinci kwaye akuthandeki njengasebhedini. Ukwabelana ngesondo ezimpundu kunye nokuphululwa kwesi sibini kufanelwe yindumiso nokhuthazo.
Intombazana yavuthela umfana kuba engakwazi ukumanga okanye ukujola. Useyintombi nto. Ngoko umama ulungile - intombi kufuneka incedise umnakwabo ukuba abe yindoda. Kwaye umama ebengayi kumnqwenelela nto imbi. Ngethamsanqa umntwana unabazali abahambele phambili ngolo hlobo.