Ewe, ooninawa kunye noodadewabo abazalani kwaphela, ngoko ayinakugqalwa njengento embi okanye engafanelekanga. Akumangalisi ukuba umfana omdala kunye nentombazana, ngaphandle kwamaqabane aqhelekileyo ngokwesondo kwaye phantse yonke imihla ejikeleze enye kwenye, ngequbuliso waziva enomdla kwinqanaba lezesondo omnye komnye. Ukuqwalasela ukuba intombazana iyayithanda (umfana ngoko akukho mbuzo), ndicinga ukuba baya kuqhubeka beqhuba olu hlobo lwento ngamaxesha.
Ubonakala ethanda ukusebenza kwishishini leenkonzo ngokwalo. )Imilenze yomntwana wesibini inomlingo, ayinguye wonke umntu ohamba kakuhle xa ephethe umqhagi ngezandla zakhe njengokuba ezinyaweni zakhe. Ewe, kwaye phakathi kwazo zonke izinto ezimangalisayo - i-vagina igeleza nje ngejusi, kubonakala ukuba ixesha elide lifuna ukuhenda uyise wesibini.